Sunday, March 21, 2010

Proud of my mom today...

My mom had been so busy that it was so hard to have an appointment with her.... But I am proud because she runs her business and she's managing it with an iron fist. I also heard her talking about business like a pro. I am so proud of her. She's totally different when dealing with other people than when she deals with us, her children, and my dad. :D

I used to think my mom was timid and shy. Because that is what she is to my dad. She adored my dad very much. She was a cum laude while my dad was a summa cum laude. In short, he excelled her in everything, and that's why everything my dad says, she will obey.

I am quite disappointed that I rarely see such adoration, respect, and love between couples. I wish that I will also find someone I will deeply respect. Actually, as I emerged to the world outside my comfort zone...I already met a lot of amazing people as I mentioned before here. If I found what may parents found in their lifetime, then I am lucky.... if not.... then I will just be an amazing person and love people. Be cheerful and sunny.

Anyhow, that's veering away from my thoughts. I began to admire my mom. So this is what she's made of away from my father's shadows. She had been so submissive to my dad that she didn't exert any efforts to excel in her own (at least that's how i saw it). My dad never wanted her working in the first place, so she was at home painting and doing her crafts. But now she's so different... here is a woman who is strong and has character. And thus, I am so proud of her! I wish my dad could see her now... she has grown into a very strong person. My dad, I'm sure will be proud that he was married to her and that he's watching her from heaven. ^__^

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